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Dating Coach Tells Men the 3 Texts They Should ‘Never’ Send Women

The three text messages guys should ‘never’ send women.

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Dating has always been hard, but it feels even harder in today’s age, with endless apps, social media platforms and more. The seemingly limitless amount of options can be overwhelming, and confusing, for most of us out there.

Blaine Anderson, a dating coach for men, is here to help guys navigate the scary waters of romance. The professional dating coach, who has appeared on “Shark Tank,” has developed a big platform on social media. The “Matchmaker & Dating Coach For Men” has more than 700,000 followers on her Instagram account. 

The professional dating coach gives a lot of tips to guys through her social media platform, including a list of three text messages that should “never” be sent.

Blaine Anderson tells men the three text messages that should never be sent.

Blaine Anderson.

Texting can be one of the most difficult aspects of dating, especially early on. You don’t want to text too much, but you don’t want to text too little, either. Anderson believes that there’s a good balance – and three texts that should “never” be sent.

The first text message that should “never” be sent: “Why didn’t you respond?”

Anderson says that if you have to ask a woman you’re interested in why she’s not responding to you, that means she’s not interested. You would think that’s common knowledge at this point, though many still struggle with it. 

“Move on,” Anderson says.

The second text message that Anderson says should “never” be sent is: “Will you be my girlfriend?”

If you’re going to ask someone to be in a relationship, do not do it over text message. This is a conversation that you should be having face-to-face. 

And finally, the third text message: “We should hang out sometime.”

If you want to take a woman out on a date, be specific and make a plan. There are few things a woman dislikes more than a vague hangout question. It shows a lack of confidence from the man and a lack of a plan. Instead, be direct and come up with a specific idea.

While the text messaging advice might seem simple, you’d be surprised at how many men fail to follow it in today’s age. 

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Author: Andrew Holleran